Nobody enters your life by accident. They always come into it at a specific time for a specific reason. It may be they come in to help you up, some come in to push you down so you can get back up stronger and more resilient. Others come in just to be there, to be the one person you can turn to when there is nobody else. We all have that one person that we can turn to, even if we don’t do it.
Friends enter our life, and sometimes they leave it again, only to come back later, down the road of life. They may leave because of something that was done or said, or it may be for no reason at all, just moving away, different circles, different timings. But when they come back, it may only be for a short time to say “I am still here, remember me?” Or it may be forever.
So when someone comes into your life, there is a reason. Many years ago, I spoke to a person in a shop, and it was one I went into regularly, he would be in there quite often. We went to his house, played on his computer, met a friend of his. Went to the new friend’s house, went back often, got drunk often, role-played often (Dungeons & Dragons, Cyberpunk, Shadowrun, Vampire The Masquerade, Warhammer), met several others, one I married and had children with. I don’t talk to or see the first person any more, his reason for entering my life has been and gone. I rarely talk to some of the others, but they are still there. Their reason has not yet been fulfilled.
Every person is valuable; every person teaches you something; every person helps you with something good or bad; every person has a reason.
I hope you have a great weekend.
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